So he’s met your sister, hung out with your friends and has spent a couple of weekends at your place. What about you has he allowed you to make inroads into his life? If the answer’s no, watch out. If someone values you, they will want to integrate you into their circle, Klipin says. If they have not introduced you to their friends and family, or if you do not spend much time with them, they might be trying to hide something. While you are not expecting a spare set of keys, being invited to a Sunday family dinner or Friday night on the couch at his place is a big deal. Inviting a partner into our space is synonymous with inviting them into our lives, Klipin says. On the other hand, if you’e found that you have pretty much put everything on hold just to be with him, that’s equally dangerous.
According to Klipin, a healthy relationship needs two people who are healthy and whole. You cannot do that if you have neglected your own interests so if you’d rather spend the day at the spa than go hiking with him (because that’s his choice), speak up. Similarly, think twice before fobbing off your mates because you are double-dating with his friend again. Spending time with your circle is just as important in fact, if he balks at the thought, you need to question why. If he’s reluctant to hang out with your family and friends, he may not longer be interested in making a good impression on you. Kalebe-Mwanza says. It’s a sign that he’s on his way out.
While you are not expecting a spare set of keys, being invited to a Sunday family dinner or Friday night on the couch at his place is a
HE DOESN’T SHOW THAT HE APPRECIATES YOU
Kalebe-Mwanza points out that happy couples take the effort to make each other happy even if it is with little things, like telling you that your dress is a winner of buying you chocolate because he was thinking of you. It’s the small sacrifices we make and the little things we do that show we care, Kalebe-Mwanza says.
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